Slowing Down

Last week we held our annual end of year celebration and graduation.  We had no children graduating this year due to long distance moves and job losses, but we celebrated with a pot-luck and campfire with s'mores anyway! 

The "theme" (if you will) of the evening was slowing down for our children. I see so many busy busy parents come in our doors...busy with work...busy with activities...busy with social agenda...busy fulfilling the expectations they have set on themselves due to the pressures of society, neighbors, friends, and family.  

We need to consciously slow down in order to protect our children's childhood.

We began the evening with a poem...

Come Out With Me- by A. A. Milne

There's sun on the river and sun on the hill...

You can hear the sea if you stand quite still!

There's eight new puppies at Roundabout Farm-

And I saw an old sailor with only one arm!

But every one says, 'Run along!'

(Run along, run along!)

All of them say, 'Run along!'

If I'm a little darling, why don't they run with me?

There's wind on the river and wind on the hill...

There's a dark dead water-wheel under the mill!

I saw a fly which had just been drowned-

And I know where a rabbit goes into the ground!

But every one says, 'Run along!'

(Run along, run along!)

All of them say, 'Yes, dear,' and never notice me.

Every one says, 'Run along,

There's a  little darling!'

If I'm a little darling, why won't they come and see?

And we followed the above poem with a song...

Memories- by Tom Hunter

What do you remember from the time you were a child?

Do you think of moments memory knows well?

Are there little things like trinkets you carry with you now,

That trigger stories memory wants to tell?

Like the people, or the places, the fun or food or games,

Like family trips or chores or how you played,

Is it painful? Is it pleasant? Is it somewhere in between?

Are there things you always wished that you could say?

May the memories wrap their arms around you,

May your childhood take you by the hand,

And may what you remember find healing when it hurts,

So the memories will protect you when they can.

What songs and smells and gatherings come easily to mind?

What have you learned of love from who loved you?

Do the memories need forgiveness to free them from the past,

And find a future you can still make new?

May the memories wrap their arms around you,

May your childhood take you by the hand,

And may what you remember find healing when it hurts,

So the memories will protect you when they can.

And what about the children you find around you now?

Are you making time to sing and talk and play?

So someday they'll have memories of love and being loved,

Protection that'll never go away.

May the memories wrap their arms around you,

May your childhood take you by the hand,

And may what you remember find healing when it hurts,

So the memories will protect you when they can.

Please, please slow down...listen to your children...provide those memories for them! 

Note: plunger painting photos are from a school day...not from our celebration! 

Comments

[Jen]

Great reminder,its so easy to get caught up in the busy day to day! They grow so fast, we need to cherish that time.